Lady Antebellum’s Song “Need You Now”, Voted Worst Break Up Song
Lets face it breaking up sucks. If you have ever heard the song “Need You Now” by Lady Antebellum (if you haven’t make a point of checking it out, it’s a great song) you may have sympathized with the characters in the song who are going through a break up and doing things all wrong.
Here’s a line from the song: “It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now. Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.” Rule number one, Stop The Desperate Dialing!
Another line from the song is: “It’s a quarter after one, I’m a little drunk and I need you now.” Mistake number 2, drunk dialing. Another mistake we make in vulnerable break up state is to text the ex. And text, and text, and text. Don’t! Texting terrorism has never worked and never will.
What do you do if you want to get your ex back?
Ask yourself one thing and be honest to yourself. Do I really want my ex back? Look deep inside to make sure the love for your ex is really there and this is not just a reaction to the loneliness.
If you answered with a confident, yes I want my ex back! Then there is a process to follow.
You Will Not Want To Do What Is Expected
At this time being predictable is the last thing you want to do. Keep your ex guessing and make them work their way back into your good standing. If you keep them on their toes they will keep coming back for more.
What can you do to keep from doing what is expected? Put an end to those daily habits. Chances are doing the same ol’ same ol’ is what got you here in the first place. It’s time to add something fresh and exciting to your routine.
Put Some Relationship Goals in Place
Even if you are separated goals can still be set. When you are trying to get your ex back, the goals are a vital part of the process. Goals should be set for different degrees of closeness and affection between the two of you and then achieving those goals is key.
Here is a list of goals you will want to consider: reaching emotional milestones, making physical changes and being able to control your temper to start with. It will be up to you to choose the type of goals that pertain to your relationship.
Be Accountable For Both The Successes And The Failures
Accountability, lately seems to be in short supply. Hold yourself accountable for failing to meet goals. As well as rewarding yourself when goals have been triumphantly met.
Reward and punishment are great motivators. Use them well. Some rewards you might consider are new hair styles, new video games, or even a night on the town with friends. Be sure that you’re doing things to encourage an active lifestyle whenever possible. You don’t want to exacerbate existing problems by creating potential health problems along the way.
Want to find out more about how to get back with your ex, then visit Gregory Howard’s site called The Make Up Plan and get back with your ex.
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